Below
is a list of ten marital problems that may cause divorce; consider how you are
currently dealing with these issues, and how
you could better deal with these
issues for the sake of your marriage.
1. Money problems.
Most
couples argue over bills, debt, spending, and other financial issues. How you
decide to deal with money problems in your marriage will determine whether
those problems has a negative or positive effect on your marriage.
2. Children.
Discipline,
diet, and other parenting issues can be sources of disagreement between
couples. A child is the number one stressor in a marriage and can accentuate
differences in beliefs on issues like how to discipline, who is responsible for
most of the child care or what educational options to choose.
3. Sex.
Frequency,
quantity, quality, and infidelity are all common sources of stress and
disharmony in a marriage. Withholding sex to punish a spouse, breaks the
marital bond. Cheating on a spouse destroys trust.
Sex
can be a HUGE issue when it comes to undoing the vows you took.
4. Time apart.
Time
apart and a lack of quality time together causes couples to become out of sync
with each other. Having shared interests and activities you participate in on a
regular basis helps couples stay connected.
5. Household Responsibilities.
Many
couples argue over equitable distribution of household work, and how to do it.
Instead of sitting down and dividing household chores fairly they quibble over
who did or didn’t do what. Don't quibble or divide up chores, you're adults, if
you see something that needs to be done, do it!
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